Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Summer Whirlwind

We are in the countdown to school starting.  July and the beginning of August have been a whirlwind of a summer.  I'm looking forward to the next two weeks not being as intense. The Jarvis' were in town for the month of July and we spent a lot of time with them, especially Eric and Rubie did and the coordinating and all the days spent away from home or even just having them over made keeping up with meals, house work, Sam's naps, and my own stuff difficult.  It has been a challenge to have kids a bit older that want to play all afternoon and have the energy and stamina to do so, but needing to be home so the baby can get his naps in.  We just try to give and take on both sides.  Sometimes we will spend all afternoon at the pool and Sam sneaks a nap in while sitting in the shade for a few minutes.  Or we go do an activity after he wakes up. 

I'll see if I can remember some of the highlights so far of July.  One of the most fun afternoons was when the Warner's came to Lindon and joined the Jarvis' and us at the Lindon Pool.  We had gone with Sarah, Noah, and Max to the Lindon pool the week before and Eric made a huge break through in playing in the pool, especially the Lazy River.  He was jumping in and going around with Noah and not hardly acting scared.  When the Warner's came Mandy put arm floaties on Eric and Rubie and all of a sudden they had all this confidence in the pool.  They were jumping in deep water and swimming all over the place.  It was fantastic!  I was so surprised and impressed.  I'll be enrolling Eric and Rubie in swimming lessons next summer.  I'll try to get an instructor for just those two and not do it every day for two weeks but once or twice a week for a few months.  Maybe I should start that in the early spring.  Any way we also have gone to the Provo pool and the new Provo Rec Center with the Jarvis'.  It is one of the best rec centers I have ever seen.  It is amazing!! The kids love the slides and all the pools. 

We spent a couple days camping.  We made it a Cherry Chub Reunion.  I booked a campground in Ogden Canyon just North East of Hunstville.  Perception Park.  It is where I went with the Young Women of our ward last year for girls camp.  We tried to get a lot more of the Cherry Chubs to join us but in the end a few committed.  There was Courtney with Lucas, Mandy with her 4 kids, Sarah with her two, me with my 3.  And Emily Helm came up for Tuesday afternoon and evening.  We had such a great time.  We got to camp Monday afternoon and spent Monday night and Tuesday night.  Courtney and Sarah left Wednesday morning and Mandy and I took our time packing up and left Wednesday early afternoon.  Perception Park is a nice camp with a trail and river.  We spent an afternoon at Pineview Reservoir.  We made bracelet and necklace crafts.  Had good food and good times.  Sleeping was a challenge for Samuel as the kids were sooo noisy all the time.  A tent does not provide much insulation from noise.  He slept mostly with me to stay warm also.  I took a nap with him one afternoon to get him to sleep despite the noise, but that was hard.

Eric and Rubie spent almost a whole day celebrating Max's birthday.  The had an afternoon at the pool.  Dinner at the Jarvis house, then a movie--Despicable Me 2, and back to the Jarvis' for cake and ice-cream and Sarah brought them home that night.  Eric and Rubie had a sleep-over at the Jarvis', and then the next week we had Noah and Max sleep over here.  Eric misses them terribly.

Some updates on each of us:

Samuel is now 9 months.  What a cutie he is!  He is such a good little boy.  He is getting more vocal and louder when he wants me to meet his needs and I am not.  But that is to be expected.  He isn't crawling but is barely showing that he may try.  He will get on his tummy and try to push with his feet and angle his shoulders.  He only tries it a bit before giving up.  He has to be really motivated to try to get something just out of his reach.  He sure likes to go outside.  He is getting to be a better eater.  And I have been leaving him more with babysitters and others during Church or with Carlee.  He does not like it when I leave him but is really good for other people.

Rubie is now 5 years old.  She is such a beautiful girl.  She thrives in the summer time.  She loves playing with her friends in the neighborhood and loves having "pajama parties" "tea parties" or any kind of party.  She loves riding bikes and wiggle cars with the neighborhood kids, jumping on tramps and just playing.  We had a couple days of celebrating her birthday.  We had a friend birthday party at the PG Rec Center on the day before her birthday (they were closed on her birthday and for a few days of cleaning).  As a family we went to Chuck E Cheese for dinner.  Grandma Jeppson came on Thursday on her birthday and took her and Eric shopping, to lunch, and a movie.  She got presents from us on her birthday.  Scott has been trying to get her to Mad Dog Cycles for a new bike but we can't seem to get there during their business hours.  We have been working on her reading this summer and she is coming along.

Eric is 6 1/2.  What a great personality he has.  He has been reading some throughout the summer too.  It has been a challenge to do our workbooks and reading each day.  Many days we get one or the other.  He has not had a hair cut all summer and has a long Faux-hawk.  For a while it was colored burgundy and blue.  He has lots of friends in the neighborhood and from school.  It is important to him to play with friends every day.  If he does not get much friend time he feels very sad.  He is obedient, often reluctantly, but does try to hurry and get his jobs done so he can play.

We have started playing soccer and have practice on Thursday nights and games on Saturday mornings.  That will go through September.  Scott finished his Masters Degree.  Wow!  What a great accomplishment for him but that very same week began a class for Six Sigma.  He is now gone on Friday nights and all day Saturday until the first week of October, but then will have another class to take.  Sigh, will he ever be done?  I would like some lazy non-stress days.  When do those come?

Monday, August 5, 2013

Eric's talk on Prayer

On Sunday, 4 August, Rubie recited/read the 9th Article of Faith and Eric gave the following talk on prayer.

In the Book of Mormon are stories that teach me when I have a problem or something I want to happen, I can pray about it to Heavenly Father.

One story that teaches me to pray is about Nephi.  The Lord told Nephi to build a ship.  He had to take his family to a new land.  But Nephi did not know how to build a ship and did not have the tools he needed. Nephi prayed.  Heavenly Father told him how to make tools and showed him how to build a ship.  The scripture says, "And I, Nephi, did go into the mount oft, and I did pray oft unto the Lord: wherefore the Lord showed unto me great things."

Heavenly Father showed Nephi where to find ore to make tools to build the ship.  Then Nephi got to work building the ship.  This story teaches me that even though we pray about things Heavenly Father still wants us to learn to work to make them happen.  Last year in school I had to memorize poems and scriptures to recite in front of my class.  I would pray for Heavenly Father's help to learn and remember the poems.  I prayed that I would not be nervous but would be able to recite the poems well.  I noticed that when I would pray to learn a poem or scripture, I didn't just know it right away.  I still had to work at memorizing it.  I would say it over and over and over to get it stuck in my head.  But I knew that Heavenly Father was helping me.

I try to remember to say me prayers every day and ask for Heavenly Father's help to be good and kind.  I pray with my family to thank Heavenly Father for our blessings and ask Him to keep us safe.

I don't always see answers to my prayers immediately but because I feel good when I pray I know that Heavenly Father answers my prayers.

In Doctrine and Covenants chapter 112, verse 10, we read, "Be thou humble, and the Lord thy God shall lead thee by the hand, and give thee answer to thy prayers."

In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Letters from Grandma and Grandpa Wilson to Eric

Sunday, February 24, 2013

From Grandpa Wilson

Dear Eric,

Were you happy today?  I was.  Grandma got sick.  But we prayed to Heavenly Father and administered to her with holy consecrated oil.  She is feeling better today (March 16th) and we know that Heavenly Father has blessed us.  Do you say prayers?  Do you think Heavenly Father has answered one of your prayers?  I believe he will if we (you or I) pray with faith.  Sometimes we ask but Heavenly Father waits awhile before he gives us what we asked for.  Your mother sent us a picture of you.  you look very handsome!  You look like you could become one of Heavenly Father's missionaries.  Do you know that missionaries are Heavenly Father's warriors.  Are you having fun in school? Do help your mother?  Did you have fin in the snow.  When I get home I hope we can do something fun.  What fun things would you like us to do?  I hope you will be a good, honest, obedient boy.  I love you.  Grandpa Wilson

From Grandma Wilson

March 17, 2013

Dear Eric,

Do you remember Grandma Wilson?  I have enjoyed your picture that your mother sent us.  You look so handsome and happy.  I know you are enjoying your friends and that new brother Jeppa.  Is Ruby helping you care for Jeppa?

Are you learning to spell words like cat, dog, and me?  Do you read books?  Your Dad became a good reader because he read a lot.  I hope you will enjoy reading.  I hope to see you in May.  I have been sick for almost 3 weeks.  Tell your family Hi from me.  Thank you Eric for the xmas card.  That was special that you thought of us.

Love you--
Grandma Wilson

Letter from Noah to Eric

Received the last week of June
Dear Eric (the 2) [they have a cousin Eric], I hade a feid trip on the last day to.  Can I call you Eric 2?  Sincerely Me Noah

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Single Mom?

We are middle of the second week that Scott has been gone for AT.  Why is it so hard this time???!!!  I cannot seem to get caught up.  I have been staying up late just to get dishes done and clean.  Then I have been up multiple times in the night with Samuel and sometimes the other kids for bad dreams or wetting the bed.  Uggh!  I finally got sick with a sinus infection.  I have totally lost my voice.  It could be worse though.  It could be so bad I can't hardly function but thankfully it is not.  It is mostly an annoyance because I am low on energy, produce voluminous amounts of mucus, and now matter how I talk I always sound mad because of my voice.  I would really just like to whisper or not talk at all.  I have been feeling like a failure as I am having a hard time keeping the LeanMoms menu and workouts.  I cannot keep up with meals, cleaning, laundry, I don't spend time with the kids like I should.  Samuel never gets walks.  Has he even been on a hike?  What is going on?  Rubie is mad at me ALL time.  No matter what I do or say, it hurts her feelings and she goes on a rampage of how no one loves her or likes her or she is stupid or idiot or some foolishness like that.  Sunday morning she was really on one.  Thank goodness I was in the right frame of mind not to react.  I just kept a positive attitude.  She wouldn't let me do her hair, and finally when I did then she messed it up.  She finally put a dress on but then wanted to wear tights that didn't match and her old scuffed shoes and it wasn't just that she wanted to wear them but she told me she did it on purpose because it looked bad and she wanted to look ugly.  Gradually her attitude changed and she participated in the Father's Day songs in sacrament meeting (Eric didn't because Scott wasn't there) and she did her talk very well.  By the end of the day she told me she loved me.  But Monday morning it started all over again.  Yikes.

We have gotten into a rhythm of doing our workbooks and school review after breakfast then doing devotional in Samuel's room right before I put him down for a nap.  We have t-ball and coach pitch baseball games M-Th.  It doesn't seem like we have much stuff but we do.  Rubie still has dance until her performance on the 17th.  Yesterday she had to be to dance from 11-12, then 3-4.  Thursday there are pictures in the morning.  Monday she has rehearsal for 3+ hours and then the performance.  I decided to take a break from karate for the summer and I'm sooo glad.  I would be really hating it.

Saturday I decided to do something fun with the kids.  I called Beth and Andy to see if they wanted to join us.  We went to This is the Place Heritage Park.  It was really great!  I'll go there again.  We really enjoyed our time there.  I'm just trying to hang on each day and not drown.  Will I ever make any progress?  Despite that I am trying to be happy and positive and enjoy the moments of the day.  I love my children and they bring me so much joy.  I just wonder how people do it--it seems years ago that moms always had help with meals, shopping, cleaning, and child care.  How can I get help?  It seems that young girls aren't really willing to have a job like that anymore.

Rubie's primary talk

On Sunday June, 9, Rubie was assigned to give a talk in primary about baptism using a scripture found in 2 Nephi.  This is her talk:

When Jesus visited the Nephites in America he commanded, "Come unto me, and be baptized in my name, that ye may receive a remission of your sins, and be filled with the Holy Ghost."

I will follow Heavenly Father's Plan by being baptized and confirmed.  Jesus teaches that children shouldn't be baptized until they are old enough to understand the difference between right and wrong.  The scriptures say this is age eight.  I am looking forward to the day I can get baptized.

When I do get baptized I will wear white and my Dad who has the priesthood will baptize me.  I will make a covenant with Heavenly Father which is a promise between me and Heavenly Father.

I will promise to remember Jesus.  Keep His commandments.  And take on me the name of Christ.  Taking on the name of Christ means that I will try to live like Jesus and do what He wants instead of what the world wants.

After I get baptized I will receive the Gift of the Holy Ghost.  The Holy Ghost is part of the Godhead along with Heavenly Father and Jesus.  He has many jobs like comforting us and helping us know what is true and right.

I am preparing now to be baptized by learning about Jesus and His gospel.  I practice making right choices and listening to the Spirit.  I know that Heavenly Father wants me to follow Jesus Christ's example by being baptized.  In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Sunday, June 2, 2013

From Eric to Uncle Emmanuel

2 June 2013

Dear Uncle Emmanuel,

We have a workout room.  I can practice karate in it.  For the summer I will play coach pitch baseball and soccer.

Sincerely,

Eric